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Hi, I’m Laura Mariani
Writer, transformation expert, and self-image alchemist.
I write about identity because every change I’ve seen fail — in business, careers, and life — failed at the same place: people tried to become someone new without changing who they believed they were.
I began writing to help women break the ceilings in their heads.
Along the way, I realised I was still breaking my own.
New Release
📚 OUT NOW
STOP IT!
Who you think you are is running your life
A practical philosophy of identity, behaviour, and personal transformation
Identity drives behaviour.
Behaviour drives outcomes.
Change identity first.
Most people spend their lives trying to fix their habits, their motivation, or their mindset.
But behaviour does not start with effort.
It starts with identity.
The way you see yourself quietly determines what you attempt, what you tolerate, what you believe is possible, and how you move through the world.
Your self-image is the invisible system running your life.
If that system remains unchanged, the results will repeat — no matter how much effort you apply.
This short book introduces a practical framework for understanding how identity shapes behaviour and how to consciously rebuild the self-concept that drives your decisions.
Not through motivation.
Not through endless self-analysis.
But through deliberate identity change.
Because who you think you are changes everything.
Looking to dive deeper?
Explore the self-paced immersions — digital experiences to reflect, reset and shift identity at your own pace
A Bilingual Digital Immersion Experience
The Language of Love — a bilingual English-Italian self-paced digital immersion experience.
Learn through story, emotion, and reflection — a transformative way to remember the language your subconscious already knows.
A Self Love Digital Immersion Experience
A self-paced digital immersion to practise the identity of being loved and chosen.
Because who you think you are changes everything.
"Who You Think You Are Changes Everything."
— Laura Mariani
Other Books By Laura
📚 Read the Essays
Work, life, ambition, and reinvention — for women navigating growth without losing themselves.
Essays on identity, change, and why transformation fails when self-image stays the same. Because who you think you are changes everything.